Dear Fellow Travelers on this Beautiful Planet,
This is a new way to write to my friends. I consider strangers simply friends I haven’t met, so you are my friend as well. We are all here to experience Life utilizing our creative minds to the very best of our abilities. Of course we all want to have a happy life. Yet every one has come through hard times. Very hard lesson times. We don’t want to repeat them…yet sometimes we feel stuck in the nasty-track and don’t know how to get out.
It’s been nearly an obsession of mine all my life, to learn all I can about being human, and to do it the very best way. When I was young, I was a pretty nice kid. Though I had a wonderful group of neighbors, cousins and friends, I was sometimes hurt to realize that some other people are not so nice, and was eager to grow up when people didn’t treat one another so badly. Surprise! And more disappointment. Life moved on…in and out of marriage, a couple of great kids (now grown) with a couple of husbands who served nicely to co-create those children and give them their start in life. Still Life was hard sometimes. I thought I could control the way other people lived their lives if I perceived (uh….judged!) them as needing to be changed. Another surprise. Ya just can’t change other people!!!!!! Hear that, youngsters with stars in your eyes about your future mates! You cannot change that person you say you love. They are Who They Are, and you are Who You Are. And the only one to change anything is yourself. I’m 60 now and am just getting the hang of that thing. Acceptance, blissful acceptance, of myself and of others. Just BE and let them BE, and breathe a sigh of relief.
What I do is to help other people find EASY ways to make their own lives better, more joy-filled, more peace-full, and waaaaay less problematic. There is a PILE of old programming in there that says life has to be hard, that you have to struggle, work hard, be what others want you to be…blah, blah, blah. Hey! It’s your life, it’s your mind, it’s your script. If you don’t like it, CHANGE IT! Only realize that you cannot change someone else’s script….just yours.
So let’s get on with it. And what is IT to be?
1. Thoughts and meanderings
2. Answers to questions clients ask me
3. Things I have learned that just may help you
4. Leads to other teachers and authors who I LOVE and who I trust to lead you to a happier life with their particular methods, theories and experiences.
5. Different methods speak to different people. So you may find me saying quite similar things, getting the message through, in several different ways.
6. I’ll be pushing my own books and things. Yes, I do need to make a living. I’m not independently wealthy….yet.
7. I’ll be giving away a lot of valuable stuff and data. That’s a really fun thing to do. What can be a better feel-good thing than to have people write and say how I have helped them in some small or large way? It’s one of my joys.
8. 9. 10……are blanks that can be filled in as we go along.
The whole point, after all, is to have some fun, to share, to learn, to grow, and did I mention have some fun?
Let’s get on with it, hey? Love, Judy
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